"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why Im thinking of planning on raising a family overseas

Scaramouche

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Ironically the Philippines ( like most Asian countries)have no strong religious culture.

It mostly all talk that western men wanna hear. Deep down inside those women have zero merci
Hi Gamisch,
Loved your thoughts on " ...a piece of flesh the size of a coin",but having visited just before Covid I was genuinely surprised at just how religious they all are!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Gamisch

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There are men who get to their mid to late 30s as childless men and get a strong urge to pair bond. Pair bonding for blue pill ideology men usually looks like monogamous marriage and having children.
I see it all around me every day.

Yet I strongly disagree. Why? Because;

- you'll be climbing trees, kicking balls, and playing hide and seek while you're turning 50
- sometimes a man gotta accept that it's just ain't for him.

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the best way to get a woman's heart is by HER choice. You can't be roaming this earth being that powerless.

- OP recently asked for movie characters as examples. Most strong male characters been through hardship and been through it all. Let that be a lesson by itself
 

zekko

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Surprised how men can simply say they will “go overseas” and raise a family.

Men don’t speak the language there , they don’t know the laws there. they don’t have a home there, they don’t have a job there, they don’t have relatives there, there don’t have friends there, but they are going to “raise a family” there like it’s eating chocolate cake.

I mean more power to the man if he can do it, but you guys make it sound so easy.
Good questions. Seems the best way to accomplish this would be to already be independently wealthy.
But I will add that I've always been attracted to Filipinas.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Deep State is worldwide OP. No place to run or hide from the rot/corruption/hostile elitism anymore.
 

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I’ve dated Chinese and Vietnamese girls in the past.

I’ve found Chinese girls to be fixated on how much $ you bring to the table (they actually asked me my net financial worth, it’s a deal breaker to them but at least they’re upfront about it). They can also tend to view bedroom action as just another chore they need to do to satisfy their partner and can be very lazy, introverted or non-enthusiastic in this regard.

With Vietnamese girls you marry into their family and are expected to entertain visitors, attend family gatherings, financially support their parents etc. Their preferred diet is very seafood based which I don’t like. They are very submissive in bed and will usually do whatever you want them to do but can be quite shy.

Don’t underestimate the cultural differences if dating a foreign woman.
 
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