"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why I'll never get a girlfriend part 2
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
CostaDeSol
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I used to think this way when I was 17.SamTheHobit said:
But then I made a dramatic change to my lifestyle when I began spending time with different social circles.
After that, I found out that it wasn't that I "repelled" women, it was just that there are many people I don't click with. But there are some that I do.
JohnChops
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I like the ****y and funny at first then drop it off to be light hearted and fun afterwards. I was doing this with a girl the other day and she called me confident and later on called me funnyMike32ct said:
a balance of both is where to be.