"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why I'll never get a girlfriend part 2
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
CostaDeSol
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I used to think this way when I was 17.SamTheHobit said:
But then I made a dramatic change to my lifestyle when I began spending time with different social circles.
After that, I found out that it wasn't that I "repelled" women, it was just that there are many people I don't click with. But there are some that I do.
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I like the ****y and funny at first then drop it off to be light hearted and fun afterwards. I was doing this with a girl the other day and she called me confident and later on called me funnyMike32ct said:
a balance of both is where to be.