"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why I'll never get a girlfriend part 2

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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CostaDeSol

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SamTheHobit said:
They seem to actually be repelled by me? Is it possible I have a personality that repels women?
I used to think this way when I was 17.

But then I made a dramatic change to my lifestyle when I began spending time with different social circles.

After that, I found out that it wasn't that I "repelled" women, it was just that there are many people I don't click with. But there are some that I do.
 

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Mike32ct said:
^This. While I don't think humor is strictly REQUIRED to get a girl, being fun (and/or funny) is very helpful. No c&f crap, just being positive, light hearted, playful, and fun.

Participate in some of our "fun" (joke) threads even if they seem trollish. From what I read, you have the looks. Just need to have a little fun man.
I like the ****y and funny at first then drop it off to be light hearted and fun afterwards. I was doing this with a girl the other day and she called me confident and later on called me funny :) a balance of both is where to be.
 
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