"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why I'll never get a girlfriend part 2
- Thread starter SamTheHobit
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
CostaDeSol
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I used to think this way when I was 17.SamTheHobit said:
But then I made a dramatic change to my lifestyle when I began spending time with different social circles.
After that, I found out that it wasn't that I "repelled" women, it was just that there are many people I don't click with. But there are some that I do.
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I like the ****y and funny at first then drop it off to be light hearted and fun afterwards. I was doing this with a girl the other day and she called me confident and later on called me funnyMike32ct said:
a balance of both is where to be.