"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why I avoid "Medium Build" chicks
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Even though the average weight of American women isn't very flattering (around 165 pounds, 5'4"), she still weighs way higher than the average. Medium my arse.
LostAndConfused
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What the hell do you expect if you are that much overweight?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Francisco d'Anconia
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MEDIUM???!!!! 
Talk about riding the (average) curve....
Talk about riding the (average) curve....
The Inside Man
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yeah 5'5 200 does NOT sound like medium build to me. 5'5 130-140 sounds more like it.
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"Too busy to meet new people and tired of the bar scene..." should read:
"Being a fat lazy pile and knowing full well that seeing her huge ass causes 99% of men to run in the other direction as if being chased by a pack of wolves..."
"Being a fat lazy pile and knowing full well that seeing her huge ass causes 99% of men to run in the other direction as if being chased by a pack of wolves..."
meitenesrigas
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That is freaking fat! American females are pigs. End of discussion. Intolerable, old, ugly, loud, sloppy, spoiled, crude pigs! Avoid them. Use those navy blue passports of yours. Once she steps foot in America she is ruined for life.The Inside Man said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
bigjohnson
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Look at the article. She's a big fat horsefaced sow. This is what happens when women concentrate on becoming providers and stop taking care of themselves; they soon find that men don't care how successful their career looks but we do care how wide their ass is.
Women trying to be just like men then complaining when men find it unappealing.
It's because we fear strong women, yeah, you bet. Sure.
Ironically I don't find a woman with some well-distributed extra flesh unappealing as some do, but this dame has about an extra person she's packed on. As someone rightly pointed out, a 5' 5 200 pound man would be heavy, but if he's working out he will possibly have reasonable body fat percentages.
For women it's gonna be 90% extra lard. That means she's bigger in volume than a 200 pound man. Put another way, at 5' 9 and 190 I sink in a swimming pool unless I tread water. This gal would survive the sinking of the Titanic without a lifeboat.
Women trying to be just like men then complaining when men find it unappealing.
It's because we fear strong women, yeah, you bet. Sure.
Ironically I don't find a woman with some well-distributed extra flesh unappealing as some do, but this dame has about an extra person she's packed on. As someone rightly pointed out, a 5' 5 200 pound man would be heavy, but if he's working out he will possibly have reasonable body fat percentages.
For women it's gonna be 90% extra lard. That means she's bigger in volume than a 200 pound man. Put another way, at 5' 9 and 190 I sink in a swimming pool unless I tread water. This gal would survive the sinking of the Titanic without a lifeboat.
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JackPrescott
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You guys are being very harsh on a woman with a little meat on her bones. I have f*cked all body styles and types, from women with Olympic Swimmer bodies with stomachs so tight you could bounce a quarter off of it, to large women, who outweighed me. I tend to take the Bon Scott approach. I love women who love me. A woman who resembles a Playboy Playmate in her prime who wont even acknowledge me is one worthless human being to me. A woman who resembles a Playboy Playmate 7 years out of her prime after having gained 18 pounds, and who is willing, after a few drinks to get lipstick on my knob at her place, and let me do unthinkable things to her naked body, is a woman I want to be with.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Nicole Ritchie isn't even bones, she's just gristle...Blackmm said:
DonGorgon
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LOOLOLOOOOLOOLOOLFrancisco d'Anconia said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Dude, 5' 5 and 115 is fabulous, 140 would be OK, 200 is an extra person living in there somewhere.JackPrescott said:
Yeah, but unfortunately, the average American woman (same with Australian women too, they're 2nd behind Americans) is very much overweight. That's why any slim chick has some serious attitude, even if she has a horse face.DoctorLW said:
At 5'5" 200 pounds, she has not much meat on her bones. It's just fat. Urrggghhh. It's even way too heavy for a guy at that height. 200 pounds is the average weight of guys at ~6' who lift weights regularly. I'm a 5'8" guy who does a fair bit of weight training and has a larger than average frame (for my height) and I'm only 160 pounds.
Always go for chicks online with pictures of their bods. Or the ones that say they're 'slim' - they usually are fine. 'Average/Medium' can mean anything, like you say!
I've given up trying to convince women that their figures are important as well as their personality - now I just chase the ones that understand this already, and have gotten themselves in shape, and have good personalities too.
I've given up trying to convince women that their figures are important as well as their personality - now I just chase the ones that understand this already, and have gotten themselves in shape, and have good personalities too.