"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why help other guys become DJs?

OldbutSTRONG

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If you were a guy who had limited success with women, but thru reading books and practicing pickup techniques became great at it, shouldn't you keep your tips/experiences to yourself? Why help others to become DJ?

I have a friend who does well with women. He became a mentor with a young guy who was horrible at the game. Eventually he learned some tricks and copied the mentor. So what happens? He ****blocks the master! After that incident, my friend vowed never to teach anything to anyone again. Why help your competition?

Aren't guys shooting themselves in the foot by telling AFCs how to improve themselves and their chances? After all, some eventually become great DJs and could possibly end up either sleeping with your partner or ****blocking your chances.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr CIDH

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If you help lifelong friend, you can count on them not ****blocking you.

AFCs here.. why not? They live far away.

Teach an AFC thats after the same women.. thats where you get drama.
 

Accension

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Absolutely help an AFC to become a DJ.
What your friend's-friend did doesn't speak collectively for all AFCs.

Look, I've waded through metres of female shi7 to get to where I am.
If possible I'll always choose to show a poor AFC the way of the boat.
Half of them would rather drown than try in frustration to stay afloat.

You may see it as literally building your own competition who might beat you later but by all means bring on the challenge if that's the case.
 

KontrollerX

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Why help?

If it feels good to help and doesn't hurt anyone else why not?

Also us giving our public service helps to prevent incidents like George and his fitness club massacre.

Not to mention we may save a friend from ever developing crushing oneitis that could cause him to commit suicide if his sweety ever leaves him.

I would agree though that its not smart to help all guys especially those guys who you judge to be scum just below the surface who would use the newfound knowledge to screw you over or embarass you.

Being a good samaritan is all well and good until you realize the current wounded person in front of you is just a wolf lying in wait waiting for two more buddies in his wolfpack to come out of the shadows and clock you over the head with a lead pipe just before stealing your wallet.
 

Treetz

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Why help? Because you yourself will get help along the way!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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