"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why help other guys become DJs?

OldbutSTRONG

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If you were a guy who had limited success with women, but thru reading books and practicing pickup techniques became great at it, shouldn't you keep your tips/experiences to yourself? Why help others to become DJ?

I have a friend who does well with women. He became a mentor with a young guy who was horrible at the game. Eventually he learned some tricks and copied the mentor. So what happens? He ****blocks the master! After that incident, my friend vowed never to teach anything to anyone again. Why help your competition?

Aren't guys shooting themselves in the foot by telling AFCs how to improve themselves and their chances? After all, some eventually become great DJs and could possibly end up either sleeping with your partner or ****blocking your chances.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr CIDH

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If you help lifelong friend, you can count on them not ****blocking you.

AFCs here.. why not? They live far away.

Teach an AFC thats after the same women.. thats where you get drama.
 

Accension

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Absolutely help an AFC to become a DJ.
What your friend's-friend did doesn't speak collectively for all AFCs.

Look, I've waded through metres of female shi7 to get to where I am.
If possible I'll always choose to show a poor AFC the way of the boat.
Half of them would rather drown than try in frustration to stay afloat.

You may see it as literally building your own competition who might beat you later but by all means bring on the challenge if that's the case.
 

KontrollerX

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Why help?

If it feels good to help and doesn't hurt anyone else why not?

Also us giving our public service helps to prevent incidents like George and his fitness club massacre.

Not to mention we may save a friend from ever developing crushing oneitis that could cause him to commit suicide if his sweety ever leaves him.

I would agree though that its not smart to help all guys especially those guys who you judge to be scum just below the surface who would use the newfound knowledge to screw you over or embarass you.

Being a good samaritan is all well and good until you realize the current wounded person in front of you is just a wolf lying in wait waiting for two more buddies in his wolfpack to come out of the shadows and clock you over the head with a lead pipe just before stealing your wallet.
 

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Why help? Because you yourself will get help along the way!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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