"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why help other guys become DJs?

OldbutSTRONG

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If you were a guy who had limited success with women, but thru reading books and practicing pickup techniques became great at it, shouldn't you keep your tips/experiences to yourself? Why help others to become DJ?

I have a friend who does well with women. He became a mentor with a young guy who was horrible at the game. Eventually he learned some tricks and copied the mentor. So what happens? He ****blocks the master! After that incident, my friend vowed never to teach anything to anyone again. Why help your competition?

Aren't guys shooting themselves in the foot by telling AFCs how to improve themselves and their chances? After all, some eventually become great DJs and could possibly end up either sleeping with your partner or ****blocking your chances.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mr CIDH

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If you help lifelong friend, you can count on them not ****blocking you.

AFCs here.. why not? They live far away.

Teach an AFC thats after the same women.. thats where you get drama.
 

Accension

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Absolutely help an AFC to become a DJ.
What your friend's-friend did doesn't speak collectively for all AFCs.

Look, I've waded through metres of female shi7 to get to where I am.
If possible I'll always choose to show a poor AFC the way of the boat.
Half of them would rather drown than try in frustration to stay afloat.

You may see it as literally building your own competition who might beat you later but by all means bring on the challenge if that's the case.
 

KontrollerX

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Why help?

If it feels good to help and doesn't hurt anyone else why not?

Also us giving our public service helps to prevent incidents like George and his fitness club massacre.

Not to mention we may save a friend from ever developing crushing oneitis that could cause him to commit suicide if his sweety ever leaves him.

I would agree though that its not smart to help all guys especially those guys who you judge to be scum just below the surface who would use the newfound knowledge to screw you over or embarass you.

Being a good samaritan is all well and good until you realize the current wounded person in front of you is just a wolf lying in wait waiting for two more buddies in his wolfpack to come out of the shadows and clock you over the head with a lead pipe just before stealing your wallet.
 

Treetz

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Why help? Because you yourself will get help along the way!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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