"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why having oneitis is unhealthy

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In ASU this past Saturday, their startin runnin back, shot and killed some guy at a club all because his guy was talkin to his(the RB's) girlfriend. Its not like they were kissing, havin sex or anything but he just shot and killed him immediately. Now Loren Wade(the RB) will have to spend the rest of his life in jail just because he had huge oneitis with his girlfriend and was extremely jealous..
Moral of the story: Never get so worked up over a woman. There are millions of fish in the sea. Getting obsessed with a woman can lead to dangerous things.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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yeah no kidding, this guy was f*cked in the head to begin with. The poor b*stard who hit on his girl was an unfortuante victim of a loose cannon, just looking for a reason to go off.
 
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The story: http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2005/football/ncaa/03/29/arizona.st.ap/

This is the murderer: http://scout.scout.com/a.z?s=43&p=8&c=1&nid=1216317

This is his girlfriend: http://thesundevils.collegesports.com/sports/w-soccer/mtt/vanblommestein_haley00.html

The victim: http://thesundevils.collegesports.com/sports/m-footbl/mtt/falkner_brandon00.html

Club CBNC in Scottsdale, Arizona (I live less than 2 miles from this club): http://www.google.com/maps?li=lm&hl...00887086372408&radius=0.000000&hl=en&ie=UTF-8
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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2 black guys fighting over a white chick. that is interesting. well the other guy got owned. R.I.P. man....

this isn't oneitis. this is some psycho shiat disorder.
 
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Originally posted by Kerensky
2 black guys fighting over a white chick. that is interesting. well the other guy got owned. R.I.P. man....

this isn't oneitis. this is some psycho shiat disorder.
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agreed!
 
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