"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why having oneitis is unhealthy

LADawg49

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In ASU this past Saturday, their startin runnin back, shot and killed some guy at a club all because his guy was talkin to his(the RB's) girlfriend. Its not like they were kissing, havin sex or anything but he just shot and killed him immediately. Now Loren Wade(the RB) will have to spend the rest of his life in jail just because he had huge oneitis with his girlfriend and was extremely jealous..
Moral of the story: Never get so worked up over a woman. There are millions of fish in the sea. Getting obsessed with a woman can lead to dangerous things.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PRMoon

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yeah no kidding, this guy was f*cked in the head to begin with. The poor b*stard who hit on his girl was an unfortuante victim of a loose cannon, just looking for a reason to go off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Kerensky

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2 black guys fighting over a white chick. that is interesting. well the other guy got owned. R.I.P. man....

this isn't oneitis. this is some psycho shiat disorder.
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
2 black guys fighting over a white chick. that is interesting. well the other guy got owned. R.I.P. man....

this isn't oneitis. this is some psycho shiat disorder.
agreed!
 
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