"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why having oneitis is unhealthy

LADawg49

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In ASU this past Saturday, their startin runnin back, shot and killed some guy at a club all because his guy was talkin to his(the RB's) girlfriend. Its not like they were kissing, havin sex or anything but he just shot and killed him immediately. Now Loren Wade(the RB) will have to spend the rest of his life in jail just because he had huge oneitis with his girlfriend and was extremely jealous..
Moral of the story: Never get so worked up over a woman. There are millions of fish in the sea. Getting obsessed with a woman can lead to dangerous things.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PRMoon

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yeah no kidding, this guy was f*cked in the head to begin with. The poor b*stard who hit on his girl was an unfortuante victim of a loose cannon, just looking for a reason to go off.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kerensky

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2 black guys fighting over a white chick. that is interesting. well the other guy got owned. R.I.P. man....

this isn't oneitis. this is some psycho shiat disorder.
 

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Originally posted by Kerensky
2 black guys fighting over a white chick. that is interesting. well the other guy got owned. R.I.P. man....

this isn't oneitis. this is some psycho shiat disorder.
agreed!
 
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