"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why Girls Like Assh*les (From an ex-Stripper)
- Thread starter bigneil
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Anyhow, this thread was created awhile ago and I wanted to reflect on the ultimate outcome.
She later confessed (at one of her horniest moments) that she "love(d) so many things about" me and that I "could be perfect" but that there were a few changes she wanted to make. I said "But you can't tell me or it will ruin it" and she said "Exactly".
In general, they should be overwhelmed by attraction though. It shouldn't be a negotiation process, so it was a bad sign overall. We made it another 8 months after that, but in the end her interest level just wasn't high enough.