"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why Girls Like Assh*les (From an ex-Stripper)
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Anyhow, this thread was created awhile ago and I wanted to reflect on the ultimate outcome.
She later confessed (at one of her horniest moments) that she "love(d) so many things about" me and that I "could be perfect" but that there were a few changes she wanted to make. I said "But you can't tell me or it will ruin it" and she said "Exactly".
In general, they should be overwhelmed by attraction though. It shouldn't be a negotiation process, so it was a bad sign overall. We made it another 8 months after that, but in the end her interest level just wasn't high enough.