backseatjuan
Banned
Why?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
What’s your definition of fat? Are you talking really fat or a woman who’s carrying some extra weight but still looks good?Why?
This is very true.. I have a colleges old friends of mine were into fatties.. I just don't understand why? I'm into a slender fair skin girl. Hope that wasn't weird af lol.If your a fit lean guy they might feel inadequate or insecure. Most fatter women i see are with chubby dudes or spare tire guys. But then again some guys are just into it not my thing though. Sometimes i wonder how some people wipe their own asses.
You weren't fat enought for them.Why?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
because they hate hot ladies. fat women often call hot women "bitches" and say theyre not like these trashy sluts and wont give sex easily because it would mean accepting the reality - that theyre exact same bitches like the hot ones, just that, very disgusting onesWhy?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Fat bro. Fat to down a 5 and bellow. Fcking whale.It depends on what your definition of fat is. There's Thick, Chubby, Fat and Obese. I knew some guys who were into chubby Women but they had shape to them. I myself prefer Thick Women, To some Men they may consider "fat".
Agree on that, what they crave the most is validation and to reject a guy is the biggest psychological pleasure a woman gets after all we dont have men leading women only to reject them while its the norm for average and average to ugly women.Fat women have more to “prove.” Due to their insecurity, fat women get more pleasure out of rejecting guys than hot chicks do. Then by rejecting guys* and mentally adding them to the “low-tier” pile, she can convince herself that she is at least middle-tier in SMV. It’s hamstering at its finest.
*Even if he is average/decent looking and thin (or with an otherwise healthy body weight), she will mentally assume he’s low-tier.
People do the same thing with money. Somebody making only $20k more than you will act all “superior” but someone making $1M+ more than you might be more down to earth.
Same with bullying in school. You’re more likely to be bullied by a normie than a Chad. A legit Chad has nothing to prove. He’s not insecure where he needs sadistic pleasure to make himself feel good or needs to put on a bad boy show to impress girls.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.