mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Many do it for validation and the female gets a more supportive than the single game "husband energy " out of it. That's why. Its a confidence boost.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why ex wife or ex long term gf still talks to him
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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What i even dont understand why a girl keep chasing you while youre being jerk all this time to her advanced.
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These are the guys that kept her imagination somewhat intact, not enough for attraction, but simply possibility.
One of the things you learn in this life, things that have happened, always have a greater chance of happening than things that have not happened... We call it irony or destiny, but truthfully, we are drawn to convenience and unseen consequences can stretch far.. it is our fear of the unknown that drives this cycle forward.
One of the things you learn in this life, things that have happened, always have a greater chance of happening than things that have not happened... We call it irony or destiny, but truthfully, we are drawn to convenience and unseen consequences can stretch far.. it is our fear of the unknown that drives this cycle forward.
logicallefty
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The relationship probably ended when her interest level for the guy was a five and an interest level seven came along. She keep the five in her orbit because she might need him someday when the seven is gone. It’s all a numbers game gentleman. Her interest level for you could be at nine. But if a 9.5 comes along you are history.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Who cares? In DJ sphere if she's not fvcking you, feeding you, providing favor resources or spending some money she shouldn't be on your radar.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.