mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Many do it for validation and the female gets a more supportive than the single game "husband energy " out of it. That's why. Its a confidence boost.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Why ex wife or ex long term gf still talks to him
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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What i even dont understand why a girl keep chasing you while youre being jerk all this time to her advanced.
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These are the guys that kept her imagination somewhat intact, not enough for attraction, but simply possibility.
One of the things you learn in this life, things that have happened, always have a greater chance of happening than things that have not happened... We call it irony or destiny, but truthfully, we are drawn to convenience and unseen consequences can stretch far.. it is our fear of the unknown that drives this cycle forward.
One of the things you learn in this life, things that have happened, always have a greater chance of happening than things that have not happened... We call it irony or destiny, but truthfully, we are drawn to convenience and unseen consequences can stretch far.. it is our fear of the unknown that drives this cycle forward.
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The relationship probably ended when her interest level for the guy was a five and an interest level seven came along. She keep the five in her orbit because she might need him someday when the seven is gone. It’s all a numbers game gentleman. Her interest level for you could be at nine. But if a 9.5 comes along you are history.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Who cares? In DJ sphere if she's not fvcking you, feeding you, providing favor resources or spending some money she shouldn't be on your radar.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.