mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Many do it for validation and the female gets a more supportive than the single game "husband energy " out of it. That's why. Its a confidence boost.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why ex wife or ex long term gf still talks to him
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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What i even dont understand why a girl keep chasing you while youre being jerk all this time to her advanced.
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These are the guys that kept her imagination somewhat intact, not enough for attraction, but simply possibility.
One of the things you learn in this life, things that have happened, always have a greater chance of happening than things that have not happened... We call it irony or destiny, but truthfully, we are drawn to convenience and unseen consequences can stretch far.. it is our fear of the unknown that drives this cycle forward.
One of the things you learn in this life, things that have happened, always have a greater chance of happening than things that have not happened... We call it irony or destiny, but truthfully, we are drawn to convenience and unseen consequences can stretch far.. it is our fear of the unknown that drives this cycle forward.
logicallefty
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The relationship probably ended when her interest level for the guy was a five and an interest level seven came along. She keep the five in her orbit because she might need him someday when the seven is gone. It’s all a numbers game gentleman. Her interest level for you could be at nine. But if a 9.5 comes along you are history.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Who cares? In DJ sphere if she's not fvcking you, feeding you, providing favor resources or spending some money she shouldn't be on your radar.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.