"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why Don't You Have A Girlfriend?

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Being_the_Don

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Sooner or later this often comes up in a convo with a woman, usually after we've got some rapport going. It sometimes starts with a woman saying: "I bet your girlfriend.." and I might comeback with I'm not serious with anybody. So then the common response from women is: "Why don't you have a girlfriend?" Variations of it are: "Why aren't you serious with anybody?" or "If you like this girl would you ever get into an LTR?" sometimes I even get asked "Do you even want to get married?" If I just say "I'm looking for quality." or "The right woman hasn't come along yet." or "I haven't met anyone I find interesting enough for an LTR" it comes across like I'm too picky.

What are some of your comebacks when asked this question?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Danger said:
Turn it back on them.

"Why don't you have a boyfriend?"
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Maybe, but their question could be loaded and they are really trying to find out something a bit more specific. I usually reply "I haven't really thought about it. Why do you ask?" She'll typically start giving you some background which will give you an opportunity to understand the nature of her question, qualify it (at her) and answer if appropriate.
 
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It's a **** test either place our own hoop like: Why don't you have a boyfriend? or ignore it completely.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Stéphane said:
It's a **** test either place our own hoop like: Why don't you have a boyfriend? or ignore it completely.
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Sounds defensive.
 
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it's only defensive if you have the wrong tonality, and body language.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Being_the_Don said:
Sooner or later this often comes up in a convo with a woman, usually after we've got some rapport going. It sometimes starts with a woman saying: "I bet your girlfriend.." and I might comeback with I'm not serious with anybody. So then the common response from women is: "Why don't you have a girlfriend?"
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Because I'm waiting for you to set me up with your hot friend.
 
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"havent met somebody i wanna settle down with yet" usually works for me
 
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