Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well to his credit technically the parallel to his advice consisted of this:Delta said:
He/She's either a troll or seriously doesnt get it.KoalaKing said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I don't Worship anyone and I don't want anyone to Worship me, guys in the PUA community worship, Neil Strauss, David DeAngelo, etc, just like Rock'n Roll fans Worship, Elvis Presley and the Beatles, it seems as if humans have to have a constant stream of people who they look up to, their are very few people these days who make up their own rules and follow them.( . )( . ) said:No problem, didnt want them too kind though because then I'd be "worshipping" you right?
So many people in this forum swear by getting a woman's telephone number just to come to a dead stop not knowing what to do with it once they have it. Denouncing the ability to skip that step by making the process sound overly simplistic to the point of it being impossible to do just reeks.Delta said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.