"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why Don't You Guys Just Simply Ask A Hot Babe Out

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Delta said:
so yes, what you say is technically true but it's kind of like saying, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS MAKE A MILLION DOLLARS....
Well to his credit technically the parallel to his advice consisted of this:

"ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS MAKE A MILLION DOLLARS....BUT DONT BE POSITIVELY PRAISING THOSE WHO ALREADY HAVE A MILLION DOLLARS AND ARE TAKING THE TIME TELLING YOU STEP BY STEP HOW TO MAKE A MILLION DOLLARS"

Dont be taking this KK too seriously mate, I just saw this gem in another thread.
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Always Compliment A Beautiful Woman - Unless You Desire To Keep Your Penis In Your Pants
He/She's either a troll or seriously doesnt get it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No problem, didnt want them too kind though because then I'd be "worshipping" you right? :rolleyes:
I don't Worship anyone and I don't want anyone to Worship me, guys in the PUA community worship, Neil Strauss, David DeAngelo, etc, just like Rock'n Roll fans Worship, Elvis Presley and the Beatles, it seems as if humans have to have a constant stream of people who they look up to, their are very few people these days who make up their own rules and follow them.

The only reason why people like, religious gurus, Billy Graham, Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, sports champions like, Michael Jordan, David Beckham, Pop Stars like Tommy Lee, 50 Cent, movie stars like, Jessica Simpson, Tom Cruise, etc have so much power in the community is because all of the average Joe's have given it to them by their hero Worshipping of these people, without the communities respect these people wouldn't be anything, it is the same in the PUA community. :D
 

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francisco,

i don't understand your reply to my objection. kk is saying just go and ask them out... as if that was a process as simple as the one i laid out. my commentary was on that. what was your point regarding that comment?
So many people in this forum swear by getting a woman's telephone number just to come to a dead stop not knowing what to do with it once they have it. Denouncing the ability to skip that step by making the process sound overly simplistic to the point of it being impossible to do just reeks.

I'd understand if you would had given examples gaps in the process, but putting it down just from a lack of understanding? C'mon.... Too many guys already do that in the forum, the ones who will limited by their beliefs.

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Its diconcerning reading post after post from guys attempting to become a DJ while trying to sidestep a skill as necessary as being able to talk to a woman. They are too focused on individual steps without understanding the process (reasons) behind the steps.
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man... it may be me... but i have no idea what you're saying! and whether you are criticizing me, agreeing with me, or criticizing kk!

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A lot of the pretty girls only give their phone numbers to the guys so that they can get rid of them, they should just be honest and say no I don't want to go out with you. :mad: :kick: :mad:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I dont know if guys actually "worship" any of these PUAs. Its more like they want to MODEL their set of behaviors to get more girls.
 
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