You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Well to his credit technically the parallel to his advice consisted of this:Delta said:
He/She's either a troll or seriously doesnt get it.KoalaKing said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I don't Worship anyone and I don't want anyone to Worship me, guys in the PUA community worship, Neil Strauss, David DeAngelo, etc, just like Rock'n Roll fans Worship, Elvis Presley and the Beatles, it seems as if humans have to have a constant stream of people who they look up to, their are very few people these days who make up their own rules and follow them.( . )( . ) said:No problem, didnt want them too kind though because then I'd be "worshipping" you right?
So many people in this forum swear by getting a woman's telephone number just to come to a dead stop not knowing what to do with it once they have it. Denouncing the ability to skip that step by making the process sound overly simplistic to the point of it being impossible to do just reeks.Delta said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.