Why don't really friendly, attractive, and smart girls

[JPlaya]

date or hook up with anybody

 

[Iceberg]

date or hook up with me

Fixed your post

 

[JPlaya]

No, I've never seen them with boyfriends and my sister is the same way.

 

[bigneil]

"I don't want to date anyone right now" is chickspeak for "I don't want to date YOU (ever)".

 

[Doctrine Dark]

Maybe it's something you never see, but I see many of these types of women (some that I actually know) with boyfriends, or going home with guys after a night out. So yeah, what Iceberg said.

 

[JPlaya]

maybe it just happens in high school

 

[Mike32ct]

date or hook up with anybody

Any decent looking female, even if she is SINGLE, is not necessarily celibate. She probably has some "secret lover" or ex or f*ck buddy stored in her phone. They exchanges text messages, and he probably comes over her place every so often. Girls hide their secret hookups from other guys. They want YOU to THINK they are all celibate and innocent. When asked about her "single status", she will say something likes "...she is just not that interested in having a boyfriend after breaking up with Steve six years ago." PLEASE DON'T be fooled by this dude.

The funny thing is, the more friendly she is, the more likely she is to be taken. She might not be OFFICIALLY taken, i.e. has a boyfriend that is public knowledge, but if she's her happy cheerful self, she's getting laid somewhere somehow. It's all done under the radar.

I'm exaggerating slightly to make a point, but this is largely true.

I'll give you a real life example. I know this good looking, friendly, intelligent 21 y/o girl. She "broke up" with her boyfriend about a year ago. She is going to school full time. But she still goes over her ex's house once or twice a week "to study there because it's close to school." If anybody asked her, she doesn't have a boyfriend. She's not interested in dating until school is over.

 

[bigneil]

(What Elvis Costello and Mike32ct said)

This Years Girl

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Let me ask you another question...

Why don't ugly fat people date or hook up with anyone?

The question I asked is wrong for the same reason as yours. You make several incorrect assumptions.

1. You assume that if hot girls were hooking up with people, that you'd be around to witness it. Let me ask you, do you tend to hook up in public, or to talk with many people about your hookups? Only desperate people seeking validation brag to anyone and everyone about their sexual exploits, and hot women generally don't seek that kind of validation.

2. You assume that you know a reasonable cross-section of the hot female population to make this observation. Let me ask you, do you have many or even a few hot female friends? If you do, then you should probably ask them about this.

3. You assume that just because hot women don't date or hook up with just any guy that they don't hook up or date at all. They have standards, but, as with most people, their standards can be met and are probably met far more often than you'd like to believe. It's a big world full of a lot of people and 75% of women by the age of 19 are no longer virgins.

They date, they hook up, and in fact they may have a lot more sex than you, but you shouldn't expect them to run and tell you about it. Real life is not a pornographic film with peep holes, orgies, and exhibitionists around every corner.

 

[JPlaya]

This is high school btw

 

[Nutz]

date or hook up with anybody

They do, with me. Seriously, I'm with a girl right now that's just as you described. They're out there, you've just got to take the time to find them. Too me about 4 years to find one I liked and met my standards (so far).

 

[JPlaya]

Why do I have to suck

 

[PapiChulo]

Also ugly, stupid, bland women get it somewhere too, they are just more prone to cling to some sucker who can't do better that much more. I honestly haven't seen women like you describe all that often at all - they are rare.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Yes, that´s my experience too. The hottest girls, usual are much more picky, and have less boyfriends though life.

Also they don´t need to have a fvck buddy, for many people sex is not an obsession.

Of course there´re some that are single but fvck other guys, ons etc.. But I know from experience what you are saying.

 

[luckster]

Why do I have to suck

Because you think you do. Take action.

I've seen you start a lot of threads lately and read most of them. From what you say, you sound like you're working on yourself physically, though your "approach journal" is as empty as it could be. You're not going to "stop sucking" until you take action. These threads can't help you anymore.

 

[ArcBound]

Like attracts like.

 

[bugsquish]

I just recently started seeing this girl who has been celibate since she broke up with her last bf back in January. She's hot, savvy and fun. But she's a bar maid and works unsociable hours. When she goes out, her brother is usually there with his ****blocking friends who have crushes on her. So she really hasn't had any opportunity to meet anyone until now. I was just in the right place at the right time to slip past the ****blockers and make a move.

 

[Mike32ct]

Yes, that´s my experience too. The hottest girls, usual are much more picky, and have less boyfriends though life.

Also they don´t need to have a fvck buddy, for many people sex is not an obsession.

Of course there´re some that are single but fvck other guys, ons etc.. But I know from experience what you are saying.

Agreed. There are no 100 percent rules in the game. There probably are some good looking girls that are celibate at times and they don't care/mind. I just wanted the OP to not assume they're celibate. They're usually hooking up somehow, but not always.

 

[leeraconteur]

Many smart chicks don't need to be with a guy 24-7, though many will mess around when it suits them. They are busy with school, career, business, etc.

Also, smart chicks can see through KINO and your PUA in 50 milliseconds. Trying to Peacock with a smart girl is a good way to humiliate yourself when she sees through it.

 

[Myrrdin]

Also, smart chicks can see through KINO and your PUA in 50 milliseconds. Trying to Peacock with a smart girl is a good way to humiliate yourself when she sees through it.

Dude, what? KINO is THE ultimate weapon in MAN's arsenal. The power of touch is what sets you apart from her FRIENDS!

Peacocking can also be done with style. If you want to peacock and don't want to do it like Mystery then hit the gym. A bulked and ripped body is THE most effective way to peacock.

Keep reading before you give advice