"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why dont i have a girlfriend?

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AriMamba

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This girl i have known for a while leeps asking me this. I read that it means she want to be my gf but im not sure... what do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell her you are too busy for a girlfriend. Act like you don't need one (because you don't).

Are you interested in her? If so ask her out. If she's interested she will say yes. If not, then don't worry about it she was just curious.
 
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Of course i just ignore the question but i will follow your advice
 
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"Do you have a gf?" = I'm interested in you, OR I think you might be gay and don't want to ask directly.

It's this one below...

"Why don't you have a gf?" = I find you attractive. I'm puzzled that no other chick took you off the market.

Anyway, I agree with the advice given by uncharted.
 
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Lol she definetely said why so i dont think she thinks im gay. But yea thabks again i have now something to respond
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are you keen on her?

If you're not, then just fob her off with something like "I'm just not interested right now."

If you are and you want to test the waters. When she asks you why you don't have a gf, you can come back with something like "Well, there's this girl that I'm actually really keen on but I don't know if she's interested though... got any tips on how I can tell?"

I know, this is AFC, but this time it is deliberate. When you deliver this one, watch her carefully. What you're looking for is a relatively strong reaction where she looks really disappointed, or really lights up with interest. You'll have to go with your gut after that.
 
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Maybe you could tell her that you prefer being alone until you get the girl of your dreams.
 
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