"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why dont i have a girlfriend?
- Thread starter AriMamba
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
Are you interested in her? If so ask her out. If she's interested she will say yes. If not, then don't worry about it she was just curious.
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It's this one below...
"Why don't you have a gf?" = I find you attractive. I'm puzzled that no other chick took you off the market.
Anyway, I agree with the advice given by uncharted.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
If you're not, then just fob her off with something like "I'm just not interested right now."
If you are and you want to test the waters. When she asks you why you don't have a gf, you can come back with something like "Well, there's this girl that I'm actually really keen on but I don't know if she's interested though... got any tips on how I can tell?"
I know, this is AFC, but this time it is deliberate. When you deliver this one, watch her carefully. What you're looking for is a relatively strong reaction where she looks really disappointed, or really lights up with interest. You'll have to go with your gut after that.