"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why dont i have a girlfriend?

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AriMamba

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This girl i have known for a while leeps asking me this. I read that it means she want to be my gf but im not sure... what do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell her you are too busy for a girlfriend. Act like you don't need one (because you don't).

Are you interested in her? If so ask her out. If she's interested she will say yes. If not, then don't worry about it she was just curious.
 
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Of course i just ignore the question but i will follow your advice
 
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"Do you have a gf?" = I'm interested in you, OR I think you might be gay and don't want to ask directly.

It's this one below...

"Why don't you have a gf?" = I find you attractive. I'm puzzled that no other chick took you off the market.

Anyway, I agree with the advice given by uncharted.
 
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Lol she definetely said why so i dont think she thinks im gay. But yea thabks again i have now something to respond
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are you keen on her?

If you're not, then just fob her off with something like "I'm just not interested right now."

If you are and you want to test the waters. When she asks you why you don't have a gf, you can come back with something like "Well, there's this girl that I'm actually really keen on but I don't know if she's interested though... got any tips on how I can tell?"

I know, this is AFC, but this time it is deliberate. When you deliver this one, watch her carefully. What you're looking for is a relatively strong reaction where she looks really disappointed, or really lights up with interest. You'll have to go with your gut after that.
 
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Maybe you could tell her that you prefer being alone until you get the girl of your dreams.
 
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