Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She even proposed to that dude? How the hell did she get the money up front. That's pimp on Pam Anderson's behalf.Pam Anderson Divorced Her Husband Of Twelve Days (Who She Proposed To Via Text Message) The Second He Paid Off Her $200,000 Debt
Source - Pamela Anderson’s ex Jon Peters has claimed he paid off her $200k debts during their 12 day marriage, stating ‘There’s no fool like an old fool.’The 52-year-old former Baywatch star wed her ...www.barstoolsports.com
Dude shoulda got him a younger "stripper"... Man Pam don't even look that good. They are riding off their "rep"... They start to loook like what they really are as they age.
I think it's something else, but not specifically discipline. Aspergers may play a part in my mindset on this.I fixed the quote for you but you definitely got some good discipline if you can.
What was your reasoning? Was she being a azzhole or a b1tch?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Lotta drugs prob. with Tommy Lee. All those STDs and the meds that she takes for them prob. takes a toll too. She was his fantasy back with Baywatch or something. Seems like a nightmare to me.
A powerful siren.