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Why dont beautiful women have boyfriends?

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
 

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There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".
 

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Yeah so Patrice O neals analogy still rings true then possibly. even though its 15 years later
 

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
You can find many good looking girls come from relatively mediocre families. They feel that they worth alot so they naturally looking for the most potential they can use of them selves, just like men, before he gets into relationship. Getting into relationship would make them stagnate and not experience as much as they could
 

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There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".
After a certain age men don't worry about league. So she will get hollared at. Over the years men may have found she's a pain to deal with. Or maybe she doesn't like to keep a man, holding out for this perfect man that does not exist. Maybe for an odd reason she doesn't like sex. Or perhaps a dead lay.
 

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Why limit yourself to one boyfriend when you can have 50 beta males in the friendzone? Instead of one dude giving you attention, now you have 50 and don’t have to give sex to any of them. Hot women get approached all the time, trust me, they’re single because they choose to be. They reject more guys in a week than most average girls do in a year.
 

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Why limit yourself to one boyfriend when you can have 50 beta males in the friendzone? Instead of one dude giving you attention, now you have 50 and don’t have to give sex to any of them.
I get that, but a womans ultimate challenge is the commitment of an alpha, its like a diamond ring to her
 

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I don't accept the premise of this argument. Most of the hot women (women that most men would rate as an 8+) would have a boyfriend at any given moment. They might change out boyfriends at various intervals, but rarely are they lacking for a boyfriend. Even when they might be lacking for a committed boyfriend, they are not lacking for sexual access.

It's possible that an older hottie (mid 30s to early 40s and well maintained) might lack a boyfriend for some amount of time, but even this is rare.
 

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I don't accept the premise of this argument.
is it different where you live? Rest assured by me, hot women are single (i know no woman is actually single but you know what i mean)
 

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Beautiful women want to be with guys that match their looks level. But most of these guys are busy riding the CC themselves as they are part of that 80/20 where 80% of the gals are hitting them up and you know us guys can't turn down pvssy.

So I see a few different dilemmas for them:
1. Chad type guy is too busy on CC himself so won't commit and often are flakey and/or end up in a short/temp romance situation with these beautiful gals.
2. Rich/Status guys that may not have the best looks but may have some game will often try to control them and/or put them on a pedestal and worship them which becomes a turn off.
3. Slightly above avg guy with a great personality may go out with them but might often suffer secrurity issues and become too needy/clingy/possessive. Another turn off.
4. The beautiful gals may have been too hurt by too many Chads and are not looking into getting hurt again, yet they don't wanna go out with any avg guys either. So they choose to remain single or "take a break".
 

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good points probably sums it up, Ive noticed one has a social media personal of a library girl, yet on her snap chat she dresses like victoria secret, TBF i will give her credit shes got the body of baywatch.

Im gonna have to put a dime in her jukebox, and guide her to join me for a drink, in sosuave fashion.
 

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
They havent met a man enough to get past the "9" part.
They lose their shyt with " i cant believe im with a 9" mentality and on the SMP they doesn't last long. Anywhere in America
 

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While I agree that really beautiful women not necessarily mate with chads only, I don't know any that dont have intersted men openly chasing them.
Yeah, I don't agree with the notion that beautiful women don't get asked out because men are intimidated by them. I heard that lie the whole time I was growing up, and I was very disappointed to find out it wasn't true. Because I had no issue with asking girls out, but the truth was beautiful women had endless options.

I think the answer is that beautiful women enjoy all the attention they receive from numerous male sources, so they don't want to get tied down to one male. And they find that if they are not in a committed relationship, that attention gets amped up significantly, because guys think they can land her. I remember one girl I knew, she absolutely could not stand it if every guy around her was not in love with her. Exceptionally beautiful women can have this reality, for the most part.

They're a bit like the alpha male with endless options, who only wants to spin plates.
 
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