"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why dont beautiful women have boyfriends?

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".
 

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Yeah so Patrice O neals analogy still rings true then possibly. even though its 15 years later
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
You can find many good looking girls come from relatively mediocre families. They feel that they worth alot so they naturally looking for the most potential they can use of them selves, just like men, before he gets into relationship. Getting into relationship would make them stagnate and not experience as much as they could
 

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There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".
After a certain age men don't worry about league. So she will get hollared at. Over the years men may have found she's a pain to deal with. Or maybe she doesn't like to keep a man, holding out for this perfect man that does not exist. Maybe for an odd reason she doesn't like sex. Or perhaps a dead lay.
 

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Why limit yourself to one boyfriend when you can have 50 beta males in the friendzone? Instead of one dude giving you attention, now you have 50 and don’t have to give sex to any of them. Hot women get approached all the time, trust me, they’re single because they choose to be. They reject more guys in a week than most average girls do in a year.
 

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Why limit yourself to one boyfriend when you can have 50 beta males in the friendzone? Instead of one dude giving you attention, now you have 50 and don’t have to give sex to any of them.
I get that, but a womans ultimate challenge is the commitment of an alpha, its like a diamond ring to her
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I don't accept the premise of this argument. Most of the hot women (women that most men would rate as an 8+) would have a boyfriend at any given moment. They might change out boyfriends at various intervals, but rarely are they lacking for a boyfriend. Even when they might be lacking for a committed boyfriend, they are not lacking for sexual access.

It's possible that an older hottie (mid 30s to early 40s and well maintained) might lack a boyfriend for some amount of time, but even this is rare.
 

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I don't accept the premise of this argument.
is it different where you live? Rest assured by me, hot women are single (i know no woman is actually single but you know what i mean)
 

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Beautiful women want to be with guys that match their looks level. But most of these guys are busy riding the CC themselves as they are part of that 80/20 where 80% of the gals are hitting them up and you know us guys can't turn down pvssy.

So I see a few different dilemmas for them:
1. Chad type guy is too busy on CC himself so won't commit and often are flakey and/or end up in a short/temp romance situation with these beautiful gals.
2. Rich/Status guys that may not have the best looks but may have some game will often try to control them and/or put them on a pedestal and worship them which becomes a turn off.
3. Slightly above avg guy with a great personality may go out with them but might often suffer secrurity issues and become too needy/clingy/possessive. Another turn off.
4. The beautiful gals may have been too hurt by too many Chads and are not looking into getting hurt again, yet they don't wanna go out with any avg guys either. So they choose to remain single or "take a break".
 

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good points probably sums it up, Ive noticed one has a social media personal of a library girl, yet on her snap chat she dresses like victoria secret, TBF i will give her credit shes got the body of baywatch.

Im gonna have to put a dime in her jukebox, and guide her to join me for a drink, in sosuave fashion.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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While I agree that really beautiful women not necessarily mate with chads only, I don't know any that dont have intersted men openly chasing them.
Yeah, I don't agree with the notion that beautiful women don't get asked out because men are intimidated by them. I heard that lie the whole time I was growing up, and I was very disappointed to find out it wasn't true. Because I had no issue with asking girls out, but the truth was beautiful women had endless options.

I think the answer is that beautiful women enjoy all the attention they receive from numerous male sources, so they don't want to get tied down to one male. And they find that if they are not in a committed relationship, that attention gets amped up significantly, because guys think they can land her. I remember one girl I knew, she absolutely could not stand it if every guy around her was not in love with her. Exceptionally beautiful women can have this reality, for the most part.

They're a bit like the alpha male with endless options, who only wants to spin plates.
 

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ok i thought he meant the guys mentality was "i cant believe im with a 9" so his alpha smoke screen drops after 2 months
Any one who thinks like that is not in a Alpha mindset. He should feel they are lucky to have him. To an outside guy mr alpha treats her bad or doesn't pay her that much attention.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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