"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why dont beautiful women have boyfriends?

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".
 

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Yeah so Patrice O neals analogy still rings true then possibly. even though its 15 years later
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Noticed recently I know quite a few childless hot women, I've never seen them in a relationship with a top tier dude.

They all constantly post romantic meme's.

I have no reason to believe they are CC riders, Ive socialised with a few of them , there not perfect but there not awful, drunk and masculine.

Im aware of a few lads they have slept with and they are far from "Chad".

Im listening to an old patrice clip, and he reckons 9s dont get asked for commitment much, is this still the case
You can find many good looking girls come from relatively mediocre families. They feel that they worth alot so they naturally looking for the most potential they can use of them selves, just like men, before he gets into relationship. Getting into relationship would make them stagnate and not experience as much as they could
 

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There could be a number of reasons. But I think the simple answer is most men are intimidated by extremely beautiful woman and don't get hit on as much as we think they do. It's easy to say "ur hot" on a picture online, or leave a heart react etc.. any guy with an internet connection can do that, but who is approaching them in the real world? Probably very few guys, because most of them think "she's out of my league".
After a certain age men don't worry about league. So she will get hollared at. Over the years men may have found she's a pain to deal with. Or maybe she doesn't like to keep a man, holding out for this perfect man that does not exist. Maybe for an odd reason she doesn't like sex. Or perhaps a dead lay.
 

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Why limit yourself to one boyfriend when you can have 50 beta males in the friendzone? Instead of one dude giving you attention, now you have 50 and don’t have to give sex to any of them. Hot women get approached all the time, trust me, they’re single because they choose to be. They reject more guys in a week than most average girls do in a year.
 

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Why limit yourself to one boyfriend when you can have 50 beta males in the friendzone? Instead of one dude giving you attention, now you have 50 and don’t have to give sex to any of them.
I get that, but a womans ultimate challenge is the commitment of an alpha, its like a diamond ring to her
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't accept the premise of this argument. Most of the hot women (women that most men would rate as an 8+) would have a boyfriend at any given moment. They might change out boyfriends at various intervals, but rarely are they lacking for a boyfriend. Even when they might be lacking for a committed boyfriend, they are not lacking for sexual access.

It's possible that an older hottie (mid 30s to early 40s and well maintained) might lack a boyfriend for some amount of time, but even this is rare.
 

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I don't accept the premise of this argument.
is it different where you live? Rest assured by me, hot women are single (i know no woman is actually single but you know what i mean)
 

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Beautiful women want to be with guys that match their looks level. But most of these guys are busy riding the CC themselves as they are part of that 80/20 where 80% of the gals are hitting them up and you know us guys can't turn down pvssy.

So I see a few different dilemmas for them:
1. Chad type guy is too busy on CC himself so won't commit and often are flakey and/or end up in a short/temp romance situation with these beautiful gals.
2. Rich/Status guys that may not have the best looks but may have some game will often try to control them and/or put them on a pedestal and worship them which becomes a turn off.
3. Slightly above avg guy with a great personality may go out with them but might often suffer secrurity issues and become too needy/clingy/possessive. Another turn off.
4. The beautiful gals may have been too hurt by too many Chads and are not looking into getting hurt again, yet they don't wanna go out with any avg guys either. So they choose to remain single or "take a break".
 

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good points probably sums it up, Ive noticed one has a social media personal of a library girl, yet on her snap chat she dresses like victoria secret, TBF i will give her credit shes got the body of baywatch.

Im gonna have to put a dime in her jukebox, and guide her to join me for a drink, in sosuave fashion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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While I agree that really beautiful women not necessarily mate with chads only, I don't know any that dont have intersted men openly chasing them.
Yeah, I don't agree with the notion that beautiful women don't get asked out because men are intimidated by them. I heard that lie the whole time I was growing up, and I was very disappointed to find out it wasn't true. Because I had no issue with asking girls out, but the truth was beautiful women had endless options.

I think the answer is that beautiful women enjoy all the attention they receive from numerous male sources, so they don't want to get tied down to one male. And they find that if they are not in a committed relationship, that attention gets amped up significantly, because guys think they can land her. I remember one girl I knew, she absolutely could not stand it if every guy around her was not in love with her. Exceptionally beautiful women can have this reality, for the most part.

They're a bit like the alpha male with endless options, who only wants to spin plates.
 

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ok i thought he meant the guys mentality was "i cant believe im with a 9" so his alpha smoke screen drops after 2 months
Any one who thinks like that is not in a Alpha mindset. He should feel they are lucky to have him. To an outside guy mr alpha treats her bad or doesn't pay her that much attention.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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