"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why does this keep happening to me?

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Blackhole105

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I was at my gf's house today (she still lives with her mom), and her mom was out so we were on my gf's bed making out pretty hard.

I made a move to pull off her shirt and initiate sex, but she tells me "we can't" and from that point I totally shut down. I basically stopped making out with her and became a zombie; I told her I had to leave and get ready for work (even though I had plenty of time to stay)

The thing is I know I'm acting like a douchebag when I do this because most of the times she's right; her mom could come home any minute and we'd be fvcked. And to make things worse her mom did come home about 5 minutes after she told me we cant. And even though I know what I'm doing is hurtful to her (and makes me feel like an *******) I still cant snap out of this unresponsive mood it puts me in.

This has happened several times now and it always strains my relationships. I want to know why this is happening and what I can do to stop it or at least hide it from her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MotownMack

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Don't be so easily discouraged.

If you think the venue is cramping your style and keeping things from going forward, try this where you know you guys won't get interrupted like when her Mom is gone. You can't really blame her if she's got a nosey or over protective Mom, for not wanting to go there.

What you're doing is not "hurtful" to her- she probably wants to do it on most levles, she's just uncomfortable with the surroundings. Stop turning a simple matter of semantics into a guilt trip.
 
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DonGorgon

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Females do what they want when they want ... "CANT" only comes up when they dont want to..

So your job is to make hear really want to soo bad that she does...
 
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Mavrick

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Just know that if you keep acting like that you're relationship will soon be over. If you keep that in mind, you won't do it.

Never convey desparation. Not even for sex. When she says no, start off light and try to escalate. Do not try to persuade her or force her. She won't be receptive.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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