"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why does this always happen????

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Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls talk. When one girl says she's having sex with so and so guy, every girl suddenly wants to fvck that guy because the original chick makes it seem like he's the greatest guy ever. That's my understanding of how they work anyway.
 

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Yeah that's definitely a factor.

How do you deal with girls that want to fvck you but when they find out you are dealing with other girls they become standoffish?
 

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narcissist said:
Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
You mean it fluctuates like one minute you're on to top, like a peak, and the next you're at the bottom, like in a valley? Something like that? No, never happens to me.

How do you deal with girls that want to fvck you but when they find out you are dealing with other girls they become standoffish?
You'd have to get more into detail, but, are you sure it's just not a $hit test?
 

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Because one month you are chasing them and been beta as fckkk.
Then the following month due to your failure you say forget this and focus on YOUR SELF and goals ....then guess what ? You appear Alpha and they flock to you.

Because you can't find the balance , you some them for a month thus you begin to get greedy and start "chasing" more.

Bottom line , DONT chase , focus on your things and women will come.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
You mean it fluctuates like one minute you're on to top, like a peak, and the next you're at the bottom, like in a valley? Something like that? No, never happens to me.

Hahahahahah^

You'd have to get more into detail, but, are you sure it's just not a $hit test?
Yeah I was thinking it might be a **** test. Like let's say you are beginnings to date a girl and you've gone on a couple dates and have had sex, then they find out that you are dating other women as well, and they go cold. How would I deal with something like that?
 

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Yorkex said:
Because one month you are chasing them and been beta as fckkk.
Then the following month due to your failure you say forget this and focus on YOUR SELF and goals ....then guess what ? You appear Alpha and they flock to you.

Because you can't find the balance , you some them for a month thus you begin to get greedy and start "chasing" more.

Bottom line , DONT chase , focus on your things and women will come.
Yeah I think your on to something. When I chase I usually get the short end of the stick. But when I do my own thing women flock.
 

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narcissist said:
Yeah I was thinking it might be a **** test. Like let's say you are beginnings to date a girl and you've gone on a couple dates and have had sex, then they find out that you are dating other women as well, and they go cold. How would I deal with something like that?
Just go with it, they will follow off of YOUR lead.

If you're beginning to date a girl, it should be implied that you're not exclusive with her...right? If not, well then she has just been welcomed into the world of The Alpha. I would never personally lead them on or lie to them, or even let them think they're the only one. So, if it needs to be spelled out for them, then spell it out: W.E. A.R.E N.O.T. E.X.C.L.U.S.I.V.E. If they balk because of that...okay, sounds good, see ya. Most of the time, it's usually a test of your manhood: will you go to her, beg and plead for her to stay, say she's the only one for you (even though you've only known each other for a week)? Or will she come back to you, and say she made a mistake, and ask YOU for another chance?

What would a Beta do? What would an Alpha do?

Which one are they ATTRACTED to?

"A woman would rather share an Alpha, than have a Beta all to herself."
-Some Wise Man
 

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It's like the stock market. Sometimes you have a flock of seks and sometimes it seems like they disappear (it's like all of them disappear at the same time too) or some plates get dropped.

Down the road, boom there you go again! Fcuk a lot for a month, dry spell for two to three weeks, fcuk a lot then dry spell all of these happening without you doing anything different.

For those shouting alpha/beta I don't think OPs question is to that regard.

Having a consistent amount of plate, same frequency of seks, day to day, month to month means you're lying about having plates.
 

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narcissist said:
Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
Happens to me. I can go through a time with 0 women, then all at once I accumulate like 10 plates. It's weird. But I can always "feel" when I am going to start to accumulate all these plates, it is never constant, but the feeling is the only thing that is.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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