“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Why does this always happen????

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Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
 

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Girls talk. When one girl says she's having sex with so and so guy, every girl suddenly wants to fvck that guy because the original chick makes it seem like he's the greatest guy ever. That's my understanding of how they work anyway.
 

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Yeah that's definitely a factor.

How do you deal with girls that want to fvck you but when they find out you are dealing with other girls they become standoffish?
 

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narcissist said:
Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
You mean it fluctuates like one minute you're on to top, like a peak, and the next you're at the bottom, like in a valley? Something like that? No, never happens to me.

How do you deal with girls that want to fvck you but when they find out you are dealing with other girls they become standoffish?
You'd have to get more into detail, but, are you sure it's just not a $hit test?
 

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Because one month you are chasing them and been beta as fckkk.
Then the following month due to your failure you say forget this and focus on YOUR SELF and goals ....then guess what ? You appear Alpha and they flock to you.

Because you can't find the balance , you some them for a month thus you begin to get greedy and start "chasing" more.

Bottom line , DONT chase , focus on your things and women will come.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
You mean it fluctuates like one minute you're on to top, like a peak, and the next you're at the bottom, like in a valley? Something like that? No, never happens to me.

Hahahahahah^

You'd have to get more into detail, but, are you sure it's just not a $hit test?
Yeah I was thinking it might be a **** test. Like let's say you are beginnings to date a girl and you've gone on a couple dates and have had sex, then they find out that you are dating other women as well, and they go cold. How would I deal with something like that?
 

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Yorkex said:
Because one month you are chasing them and been beta as fckkk.
Then the following month due to your failure you say forget this and focus on YOUR SELF and goals ....then guess what ? You appear Alpha and they flock to you.

Because you can't find the balance , you some them for a month thus you begin to get greedy and start "chasing" more.

Bottom line , DONT chase , focus on your things and women will come.
Yeah I think your on to something. When I chase I usually get the short end of the stick. But when I do my own thing women flock.
 

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narcissist said:
Yeah I was thinking it might be a **** test. Like let's say you are beginnings to date a girl and you've gone on a couple dates and have had sex, then they find out that you are dating other women as well, and they go cold. How would I deal with something like that?
Just go with it, they will follow off of YOUR lead.

If you're beginning to date a girl, it should be implied that you're not exclusive with her...right? If not, well then she has just been welcomed into the world of The Alpha. I would never personally lead them on or lie to them, or even let them think they're the only one. So, if it needs to be spelled out for them, then spell it out: W.E. A.R.E N.O.T. E.X.C.L.U.S.I.V.E. If they balk because of that...okay, sounds good, see ya. Most of the time, it's usually a test of your manhood: will you go to her, beg and plead for her to stay, say she's the only one for you (even though you've only known each other for a week)? Or will she come back to you, and say she made a mistake, and ask YOU for another chance?

What would a Beta do? What would an Alpha do?

Which one are they ATTRACTED to?

"A woman would rather share an Alpha, than have a Beta all to herself."
-Some Wise Man
 

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It's like the stock market. Sometimes you have a flock of seks and sometimes it seems like they disappear (it's like all of them disappear at the same time too) or some plates get dropped.

Down the road, boom there you go again! Fcuk a lot for a month, dry spell for two to three weeks, fcuk a lot then dry spell all of these happening without you doing anything different.

For those shouting alpha/beta I don't think OPs question is to that regard.

Having a consistent amount of plate, same frequency of seks, day to day, month to month means you're lying about having plates.
 

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narcissist said:
Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
Happens to me. I can go through a time with 0 women, then all at once I accumulate like 10 plates. It's weird. But I can always "feel" when I am going to start to accumulate all these plates, it is never constant, but the feeling is the only thing that is.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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