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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Why does this always happen????

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Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girls talk. When one girl says she's having sex with so and so guy, every girl suddenly wants to fvck that guy because the original chick makes it seem like he's the greatest guy ever. That's my understanding of how they work anyway.
 

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Yeah that's definitely a factor.

How do you deal with girls that want to fvck you but when they find out you are dealing with other girls they become standoffish?
 

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narcissist said:
Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
You mean it fluctuates like one minute you're on to top, like a peak, and the next you're at the bottom, like in a valley? Something like that? No, never happens to me.

How do you deal with girls that want to fvck you but when they find out you are dealing with other girls they become standoffish?
You'd have to get more into detail, but, are you sure it's just not a $hit test?
 

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Because one month you are chasing them and been beta as fckkk.
Then the following month due to your failure you say forget this and focus on YOUR SELF and goals ....then guess what ? You appear Alpha and they flock to you.

Because you can't find the balance , you some them for a month thus you begin to get greedy and start "chasing" more.

Bottom line , DONT chase , focus on your things and women will come.
 

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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Peaks&Valleys said:
You mean it fluctuates like one minute you're on to top, like a peak, and the next you're at the bottom, like in a valley? Something like that? No, never happens to me.

Hahahahahah^

You'd have to get more into detail, but, are you sure it's just not a $hit test?
Yeah I was thinking it might be a **** test. Like let's say you are beginnings to date a girl and you've gone on a couple dates and have had sex, then they find out that you are dating other women as well, and they go cold. How would I deal with something like that?
 

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Yorkex said:
Because one month you are chasing them and been beta as fckkk.
Then the following month due to your failure you say forget this and focus on YOUR SELF and goals ....then guess what ? You appear Alpha and they flock to you.

Because you can't find the balance , you some them for a month thus you begin to get greedy and start "chasing" more.

Bottom line , DONT chase , focus on your things and women will come.
Yeah I think your on to something. When I chase I usually get the short end of the stick. But when I do my own thing women flock.
 

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narcissist said:
Yeah I was thinking it might be a **** test. Like let's say you are beginnings to date a girl and you've gone on a couple dates and have had sex, then they find out that you are dating other women as well, and they go cold. How would I deal with something like that?
Just go with it, they will follow off of YOUR lead.

If you're beginning to date a girl, it should be implied that you're not exclusive with her...right? If not, well then she has just been welcomed into the world of The Alpha. I would never personally lead them on or lie to them, or even let them think they're the only one. So, if it needs to be spelled out for them, then spell it out: W.E. A.R.E N.O.T. E.X.C.L.U.S.I.V.E. If they balk because of that...okay, sounds good, see ya. Most of the time, it's usually a test of your manhood: will you go to her, beg and plead for her to stay, say she's the only one for you (even though you've only known each other for a week)? Or will she come back to you, and say she made a mistake, and ask YOU for another chance?

What would a Beta do? What would an Alpha do?

Which one are they ATTRACTED to?

"A woman would rather share an Alpha, than have a Beta all to herself."
-Some Wise Man
 

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It's like the stock market. Sometimes you have a flock of seks and sometimes it seems like they disappear (it's like all of them disappear at the same time too) or some plates get dropped.

Down the road, boom there you go again! Fcuk a lot for a month, dry spell for two to three weeks, fcuk a lot then dry spell all of these happening without you doing anything different.

For those shouting alpha/beta I don't think OPs question is to that regard.

Having a consistent amount of plate, same frequency of seks, day to day, month to month means you're lying about having plates.
 

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narcissist said:
Why is it that the amount of plates i have always fluctuate to the extremes.

I'll go 1 month with standoffish women, flakey women, and simply not being able to catch a date.

Then the next month comes around and I have literally flocks of females ready to jump on my d1ck.

I wish it was more evened out. It's too much work having like 10 plates. And then when I recycle plates i end up having a dry period.

Why does this happen? And does it happen to you guys?
Happens to me. I can go through a time with 0 women, then all at once I accumulate like 10 plates. It's weird. But I can always "feel" when I am going to start to accumulate all these plates, it is never constant, but the feeling is the only thing that is.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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