hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe.
Of course that's a possibility.
But we haven't heard him tell that side of the story all the way through.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe.
Of course that's a possibility.
But we haven't heard him tell that side of the story all the way through.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ignore the troll guysOriginally posted by georgie24
hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!
Never mind what i wrote..when i wrote this i had forgotten that she's a feminist(can't stand 'em). But yeah, like others have said, i'd try to get what i can out of her, and if nothing happens, ditch her!Originally posted by No Escape
Ditch her! Correct me if i'm wrong anyone, but i think if she really liked you, she would've let you nail her by now. Women like this are a waste!
I agree...Originally posted by diablo
Point proven.![]()
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.