hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe.
Of course that's a possibility.
But we haven't heard him tell that side of the story all the way through.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe.
Of course that's a possibility.
But we haven't heard him tell that side of the story all the way through.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ignore the troll guysOriginally posted by georgie24
hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!
Never mind what i wrote..when i wrote this i had forgotten that she's a feminist(can't stand 'em). But yeah, like others have said, i'd try to get what i can out of her, and if nothing happens, ditch her!Originally posted by No Escape
Ditch her! Correct me if i'm wrong anyone, but i think if she really liked you, she would've let you nail her by now. Women like this are a waste!
I agree...Originally posted by diablo
Point proven.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.