"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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why does she make me wait so long for sex?

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Originally posted by Tha Realnezz
Maybe.

Of course that's a possibility.

But we haven't heard him tell that side of the story all the way through.
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hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by georgie24
hey champ i have to be a man and provide for them!
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ignore the troll guys
 
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Re: Re: why does she make me wait so long for sex?

Originally posted by No Escape
Ditch her! Correct me if i'm wrong anyone, but i think if she really liked you, she would've let you nail her by now. Women like this are a waste!
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Never mind what i wrote..when i wrote this i had forgotten that she's a feminist(can't stand 'em). But yeah, like others have said, i'd try to get what i can out of her, and if nothing happens, ditch her!
 
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After that last reply i think we should just let him continue hes pathetic relationship.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Never ever, ever, ever beg to a woman. Your relationship with her (and her mother) is already shot so I suggest you move on. A woman's hook is sex, but a man's hook is challenge.
 
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wow georgie you havent learned a thing on this site







READ THE FRIGGIN BIBLE! FOR GOD SAKE MAN!!!!! GROW UP!
 
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If you get into a relationship with certain girls and you invest alot in them for example time,money and compliments she sees you as a long term partener a provider rather than a lover. When a women sees a potential long term partener she will withold sex until she sees fit. I think women like this are more likly to cheat on there partener and find a lover somewere else because she sees you as a provider although this is not always true some withhold it for religious and other reasons. you should have never let yourself fall into the trap were she and her mother has control over you - let her invest a little into you man.
 
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Yeah, it's called being a Surrogate Boyfriend. You fill the role of providing for her security drive by being the 'perfect boyfriend' with no reciprocation of intimacy from her. It's the perfect situation for a girl because she's free to explore sex with guys she is physically attracted to while having the surrogate to support her security needs. It's analagous to a guy having a fvck buddy. His primary drive (sex) is met without his having to reciprocate security for her.

Always remember the cardinal rule of relations:

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

At this point GEORGIE24 has convinced himself he needs this woman (and by default her Mother) more than she needs him. The real problem will occur when he does in fact refuse this chick. She will realize (or it will appear) that he's grown a pair and she'll respond favorably to this until such time as she calls his bluff again and he remits. Then it will be back to the whipped routine again. Which is why I'd advise to NEXT these Wimyn and move onto better prospects, while at the same time going back and reading the DJ Bible so as not to return to this pattern with the next manipulative b!tch to entertain his self-inflicted pre-whipping of himself.
 
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