"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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why does only 1 vistitor in 20 post?

goundra

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and only 1 in 100 start a new topic thread? are you all that gutless and ignorant?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Atom Smasher

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Sometimes people are undecided as to how to respond and they know they will return to the thread when others start responding, or after they've digested the question for a while.

I myself have started several threads that languished for a few days and then got red hot.

Did you guys know we have several thousand regular lurkers on SS? What we write is absorbed by many thousands of guys (and no doubt, probably several hundred girls) who just don't have it in them to participate. It's all good, because they are out in the world unplugging and slowly changing their view on the status quo.
 

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*Obligatory reply*
 

Who Dares Win

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Yeah I hear you, thats why I often join discussion in which Im absolutely clueless only to quote well know users and say "I agree".
/sarcasm mode off
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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speed dawg

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Time for the banhammer on goundra/twentee/etc.
 

twentee

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if you don't have a real answer, why post, hmm? the question is WHY is it "the nature" of discussion boards? And look at most of the repsonses. BAN him, he "posts too much", WAAAAAA! He knows more than me and makes me feel inferior". My thanks to those who did post a real reply.
 

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Some people hold back out of fear of giving advice they aren't confident in or haven't field tested, which is a good thing. Other people just like to read.
 
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