"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why does only 1 vistitor in 20 post?

goundra

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and only 1 in 100 start a new topic thread? are you all that gutless and ignorant?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sometimes people are undecided as to how to respond and they know they will return to the thread when others start responding, or after they've digested the question for a while.

I myself have started several threads that languished for a few days and then got red hot.

Did you guys know we have several thousand regular lurkers on SS? What we write is absorbed by many thousands of guys (and no doubt, probably several hundred girls) who just don't have it in them to participate. It's all good, because they are out in the world unplugging and slowly changing their view on the status quo.
 

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*Obligatory reply*
 

Who Dares Win

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Yeah I hear you, thats why I often join discussion in which Im absolutely clueless only to quote well know users and say "I agree".
/sarcasm mode off
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Time for the banhammer on goundra/twentee/etc.
 

twentee

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if you don't have a real answer, why post, hmm? the question is WHY is it "the nature" of discussion boards? And look at most of the repsonses. BAN him, he "posts too much", WAAAAAA! He knows more than me and makes me feel inferior". My thanks to those who did post a real reply.
 

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Some people hold back out of fear of giving advice they aren't confident in or haven't field tested, which is a good thing. Other people just like to read.
 
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