"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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why does only 1 vistitor in 20 post?

goundra

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and only 1 in 100 start a new topic thread? are you all that gutless and ignorant?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Atom Smasher

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Sometimes people are undecided as to how to respond and they know they will return to the thread when others start responding, or after they've digested the question for a while.

I myself have started several threads that languished for a few days and then got red hot.

Did you guys know we have several thousand regular lurkers on SS? What we write is absorbed by many thousands of guys (and no doubt, probably several hundred girls) who just don't have it in them to participate. It's all good, because they are out in the world unplugging and slowly changing their view on the status quo.
 

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*Obligatory reply*
 

Who Dares Win

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Yeah I hear you, thats why I often join discussion in which Im absolutely clueless only to quote well know users and say "I agree".
/sarcasm mode off
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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speed dawg

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Time for the banhammer on goundra/twentee/etc.
 

twentee

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if you don't have a real answer, why post, hmm? the question is WHY is it "the nature" of discussion boards? And look at most of the repsonses. BAN him, he "posts too much", WAAAAAA! He knows more than me and makes me feel inferior". My thanks to those who did post a real reply.
 

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Some people hold back out of fear of giving advice they aren't confident in or haven't field tested, which is a good thing. Other people just like to read.
 
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