"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why does oneitis hit us so hard?

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Why does oneitis affect guys so much and not nearly as bad as women. I mean at any given time I'd say that a large percentage of men maybe (over 50%) have a oneitis while very few girls do. Why is this?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'm just guessing...
mood swings.

haha, their emotions are too jumbled and confused to hold a fixation like that.

I think oneitis has alot to do with your personality towards it.
 
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That's because the average guys dont get too many girls, but the hot girls do?
Hot women are not scarce, but hot women that stop and talk to the kinda lonely guy is. Law of scarcity comes in, and can you guess who loses?
 
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it hits women hard to but....only hot guys or guys they have very high interest/value in...my friends sister literally killed herself over this one guy and gained like 200 lbs because of him and she was very hot probably like a HB8 and she got so depressed over her oneitis you probably would think she was ugly after all the **** she went through after he dumped her...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It hits us hard too. We just hide it better.

Fell madly in love with Dennis W. in 7th grade, carried a torch for him all through High School. I don't think he even knew we were on the same planet. I cried in my pillow for three nights in a row when he asked Gina to the Prom instead of me.




.......BASTARD!
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Women typically have more ongoing options (spinning plates) than most men.
 
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Simply put, the ugs do. The hot ones don't (except for very rare occasions). This is because of the many options hot girls have, they can go and get a drink off about 80% of guys at a bar where as the ugs could prolly get about 20% of the guys, possibly higher if the guys are drunk, if they actually tried but usually they're too shy and then don't get approached by guys anyway effectively making the chance of them getting a date goes to near 0%.

This is why we recomend to go sleep with ten other women to cure oneitis. And to keep more than one girl in your fingers in order to prevent it.

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