"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why does oneitis hit us so hard?

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Why does oneitis affect guys so much and not nearly as bad as women. I mean at any given time I'd say that a large percentage of men maybe (over 50%) have a oneitis while very few girls do. Why is this?
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm just guessing...
mood swings.

haha, their emotions are too jumbled and confused to hold a fixation like that.

I think oneitis has alot to do with your personality towards it.
 
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That's because the average guys dont get too many girls, but the hot girls do?
Hot women are not scarce, but hot women that stop and talk to the kinda lonely guy is. Law of scarcity comes in, and can you guess who loses?
 
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it hits women hard to but....only hot guys or guys they have very high interest/value in...my friends sister literally killed herself over this one guy and gained like 200 lbs because of him and she was very hot probably like a HB8 and she got so depressed over her oneitis you probably would think she was ugly after all the **** she went through after he dumped her...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It hits us hard too. We just hide it better.

Fell madly in love with Dennis W. in 7th grade, carried a torch for him all through High School. I don't think he even knew we were on the same planet. I cried in my pillow for three nights in a row when he asked Gina to the Prom instead of me.




.......BASTARD!
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Women typically have more ongoing options (spinning plates) than most men.
 
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Simply put, the ugs do. The hot ones don't (except for very rare occasions). This is because of the many options hot girls have, they can go and get a drink off about 80% of guys at a bar where as the ugs could prolly get about 20% of the guys, possibly higher if the guys are drunk, if they actually tried but usually they're too shy and then don't get approached by guys anyway effectively making the chance of them getting a date goes to near 0%.

This is why we recomend to go sleep with ten other women to cure oneitis. And to keep more than one girl in your fingers in order to prevent it.

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