"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why does it feel like I'm constantly being disrespected

thedude4242

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earn respect, know what it is and simply dont tolerate or put up with bullsh!t. bullsh!t comes along dont bother with it anymore.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Atom Smasher

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TIC said:
This girl does not have respect for your boundaries.

What you have is an increasing number of guys hovering around your woman like sharks...first the photo guy, then her ex out of nowhere, who's next?

I'd tell her to COOL IT with the guy friends. She already has a man in her life and shouldn't need anymore male attention, especially from men who she's seen naked before
Normally you'd be correct, TIC, but it looks to me like the OP doesn't have any boundaries.

OP, you're stuck in Beta-Land. You sound like you have nice-guy-ism oozing out of your pores. In your quest to be "fair" and open-minded, you're turning yourself into a doormat.

It's NOT ok for any girl of mine to see other men, period. I establish that early on and it's not up for negotiation. There's no such thing as an innocent male/female "friendship". Sexuality is always there.
 

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It's been taken care of. Thanks for the input. Apparently this issue is one that requires the experience of people who aren't on this forum. I doubt anyone but Bible Belt would understand. lol
 

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ThunderMaverick said:
I told her I was uncomfortable with it because of their history (abuse, etc) and was just going to leave when he showed up. But I decided to call them back and hang with them at the mall.
You want respect? Then don't be telling her how you feel like a helpless person on Oprah. You law down the law like a man and set some rules in the relationship. All that should have been done first day. I wouldn't allow my GF hang around with her ex's or let other guys touch her.


Like another poster said, if you want respect you have to earn it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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It is clear that what this women is doing is setting herself up for a new relationship.
 
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