Why does a woman do this?

[sosumba]

Why does a woman tell that somone has been hitting on her. Is it to increase her SMV in my eyes or does she want me to hit on her?

 

[MoMoses]

Why does a woman tell that somone has been hitting on her. Is it to increase her SMV in my eyes or does she want me to hit on her?

Girls like preselection. They want men who are wanted by other women.

So in their mind this is how it works in the other direction aswell. Hence, if someone hits on her, she is preselected and has a higher SMV, or at least she's trying to show a higher SMV to someone else. Could be you. Don't know enough details.

 

[Mike32ct]

It’s a “humble brag.”

If the guy is attractive, she’s showing off that hot guys want her yet still don’t necessarily meet her “standards.”

If the guy isn’t attractive, she’s projecting a “How dare he hit on me? I’m out of his league” vibe.

 

[bat soup]

Men brag about how many women they've banged. Women brag about how many men want to bang them.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She wants to see your reaction to it and if you act like a cool confident guy or if you get all frazzled.

 

[Velasco]

Dont really care why she does it. But the fact that she mentioned it to me in a way where it wasnt attractive, means that the dude doesnt have game. So I always act all curious and be like, "omg what happened?" She tells me. I tell her I feel so bad. Gives me a chance to show her I have game cuz I can show her what he did wrong/should have done. Gets her going "omg YES!!!"

Contrasting myself from chodes is a big part of my game.

 

[RangerMIke]

Why does a woman tell that somone has been hitting on her. Is it to increase her SMV in my eyes or does she want me to hit on her?

I need some context.

If she is someone you are dating... this happens when she feels like she is starting to lose control of the relationship, and she's letting you know she has other options. It's a power play.

If it's some chick you just met, and you are on a first date. She is communicating to you that she's not interested in a relationship because she is sensing a vib that you are.... she is telling you that she is playing the field and if anything happens, don't turn into a clueless stalker.

If it is neither, then you are being tested to see how you react.... she wants to see if you have jealousy tendencies... chicks hate that sh1t.

In all cases the only way to respond is the ignore it and change the subject.

 

[Modern Man Advice]

Why does a woman tell that somone has been hitting on her. Is it to increase her SMV in my eyes or does she want me to hit on her?

Because attention is like any other drug, highly addictive and satisfying.

Don't give yours away for free.

Modern Man Advice

 

[Alvafe]

I need some context.

If she is someone you are dating... this happens when she feels like she is starting to lose control of the relationship, and she's letting you know she has other options. It's a power play.

If it's some chick you just met, and you are on a first date. She is communicating to you that she's not interested in a relationship because she is sensing a vib that you are.... she is telling you that she is playing the field and if anything happens, don't turn into a clueless stalker.

If it is neither, then you are being tested to see how you react.... she wants to see if you have jealousy tendencies... chicks hate that sh1t.

In all cases the only way to respond is the ignore it and change the subject.

jealousy is not they hate it, if is a guy they like they kinda like it, but most use this as a power play tool to control the guy


also note a woman who are interested in you will never mention another guy, she knows more guys she had less valuable she is, so unless she is a complete clueless retard she will never mention anotehr guy IF she is interested in you

 

[Bigpapa]

jealousy is not they hate it, if is a guy they like they kinda like it, but most use this as a power play tool to control the guy


also note a woman who are interested in you will never mention another guy, she knows more guys she had less valuable she is, so unless she is a complete clueless retard she will never mention anotehr guy IF she is interested in you

this is a total misconception here

women mention other guys that are hitting her ( and just this ) to demonstrate preselection

she does this because she likes you and maybe also sees you a little bit out of reach ( like aloof or higher value then her as a few examples ) , not because she does not

 

[Alvafe]

this is a total misconception here

women mention other guys that are hitting her ( and just this ) to demonstrate preselection

she does this because she likes you and maybe also sees you a little bit out of reach ( like aloof or higher value then her as a few examples ) , not because she does not

I never saw a woman interested in me telling me she had guys hitting on her, and in the same line when I heard she was not interested, I had cases in a guy hitting on her with me on her side, with I just pulled her with me ignoring the idiot, with she thanked me later, if you had a diferent case that is interesting, but not something I saw myself, maybe cultural diferences

 

[Velasco]

I never saw a woman interested in me telling me she had guys hitting on her,

interesting. my fbuddy and i constantly laugh about the numerous guys at her work that try to hit on her lol.

 

[2Rocky]

My response has been. "Well that comes with the territory of having a hot girlfriend. If it becomes a problem and I have to deal with it let me know. "

 

[Clamslammer]

Why does a woman tell that somone has been hitting on her. Is it to increase her SMV in my eyes or does she want me to hit on her?

Yes everything they do is for attention, why do you think they wear a pound of makeup. Next time a girl says it, you should have told her she should have gone out with him. Be indifferent to her bs and she will work to get your attention.

 

[Bigpapa]

I never saw a woman interested in me telling me she had guys hitting on her, and in the same line when I heard she was not interested, I had cases in a guy hitting on her with me on her side, with I just pulled her with me ignoring the idiot, with she thanked me later, if you had a diferent case that is interesting, but not something I saw myself, maybe cultural diferences

Europe is like this mate , maybe on other continents things are different

you have to be crazy to over think , more than “ awww ... she is so cute trying to show me that she is attractive”

 

[jimwho]

Well you're kinda cute, aren't you flattered? Now hand me the 9\16th's and bring me a beer..

 

[Lookatu]

Agree and amplify and you tell her all the women you had to fight off during your day and how tired you are of that.