"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why does a woman change quickly

DarkStormZz

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Hey guys,

So yeah, I just recently knew this girl in uni and she is in the same class as I. After a week, I started texting her and she seemed interested. We even ended up chatting everyday in the class as well as in the phone. However, even after about 3 weeks of knowing her, we never really went out together (just the two of us). The only time we were together was in her room. After a month, she had to go back to the country she is originated from for 5 weeks. This whole 5 weeks, we chatted everyday and called and even Facetimed. Now, she has recently got back to uni but everything seems so awkward. Normally, she replied my texts right away. Now, she replies like in every hour or so.

Does anyone have any idea? Or is she just testing me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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NickSCFC

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In these cases I used to push them for a reason as to why they've become distant, and usually the result isn't pleasing.

Many reasons for this are...

1. She's bored of you

2. She's not having second thoughts as she feels she's getting into something serious that she can't get out of, she's not sure

3. She knows she can have you any time, you lack challenge

My advice, stop texting so much, next time she wants to see you (if her interest level hasn't completely gone by now), say that you've already made plans for that time.

Good luck
 

NickSCFC

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I'd just like to add there's absolutely nothing to indicate anything romantic going on here.
 

Sensible

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Facebook, Cellphone etc. should be used for only setting dates.
There can be countless reasons to why she lost interest. Back off and see what she does. If she reaches out to you, make a definite date and don't talk to her on text. The only way to know is by simply asking her out.
 

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Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don-Kong

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SgtSplacker said:
Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
Good stuff. :up:
 
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