"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why does a woman change quickly

DarkStormZz

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Hey guys,

So yeah, I just recently knew this girl in uni and she is in the same class as I. After a week, I started texting her and she seemed interested. We even ended up chatting everyday in the class as well as in the phone. However, even after about 3 weeks of knowing her, we never really went out together (just the two of us). The only time we were together was in her room. After a month, she had to go back to the country she is originated from for 5 weeks. This whole 5 weeks, we chatted everyday and called and even Facetimed. Now, she has recently got back to uni but everything seems so awkward. Normally, she replied my texts right away. Now, she replies like in every hour or so.

Does anyone have any idea? Or is she just testing me?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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NickSCFC

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In these cases I used to push them for a reason as to why they've become distant, and usually the result isn't pleasing.

Many reasons for this are...

1. She's bored of you

2. She's not having second thoughts as she feels she's getting into something serious that she can't get out of, she's not sure

3. She knows she can have you any time, you lack challenge

My advice, stop texting so much, next time she wants to see you (if her interest level hasn't completely gone by now), say that you've already made plans for that time.

Good luck
 

NickSCFC

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I'd just like to add there's absolutely nothing to indicate anything romantic going on here.
 

Sensible

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Facebook, Cellphone etc. should be used for only setting dates.
There can be countless reasons to why she lost interest. Back off and see what she does. If she reaches out to you, make a definite date and don't talk to her on text. The only way to know is by simply asking her out.
 

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Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Don-Kong

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SgtSplacker said:
Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
Good stuff. :up:
 
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