"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Why does a woman change quickly

DarkStormZz

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Hey guys,

So yeah, I just recently knew this girl in uni and she is in the same class as I. After a week, I started texting her and she seemed interested. We even ended up chatting everyday in the class as well as in the phone. However, even after about 3 weeks of knowing her, we never really went out together (just the two of us). The only time we were together was in her room. After a month, she had to go back to the country she is originated from for 5 weeks. This whole 5 weeks, we chatted everyday and called and even Facetimed. Now, she has recently got back to uni but everything seems so awkward. Normally, she replied my texts right away. Now, she replies like in every hour or so.

Does anyone have any idea? Or is she just testing me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NickSCFC

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In these cases I used to push them for a reason as to why they've become distant, and usually the result isn't pleasing.

Many reasons for this are...

1. She's bored of you

2. She's not having second thoughts as she feels she's getting into something serious that she can't get out of, she's not sure

3. She knows she can have you any time, you lack challenge

My advice, stop texting so much, next time she wants to see you (if her interest level hasn't completely gone by now), say that you've already made plans for that time.

Good luck
 

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I'd just like to add there's absolutely nothing to indicate anything romantic going on here.
 

Sensible

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Facebook, Cellphone etc. should be used for only setting dates.
There can be countless reasons to why she lost interest. Back off and see what she does. If she reaches out to you, make a definite date and don't talk to her on text. The only way to know is by simply asking her out.
 

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Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don-Kong

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SgtSplacker said:
Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
Good stuff. :up:
 
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