"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why does a woman change quickly

DarkStormZz

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Hey guys,

So yeah, I just recently knew this girl in uni and she is in the same class as I. After a week, I started texting her and she seemed interested. We even ended up chatting everyday in the class as well as in the phone. However, even after about 3 weeks of knowing her, we never really went out together (just the two of us). The only time we were together was in her room. After a month, she had to go back to the country she is originated from for 5 weeks. This whole 5 weeks, we chatted everyday and called and even Facetimed. Now, she has recently got back to uni but everything seems so awkward. Normally, she replied my texts right away. Now, she replies like in every hour or so.

Does anyone have any idea? Or is she just testing me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NickSCFC

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In these cases I used to push them for a reason as to why they've become distant, and usually the result isn't pleasing.

Many reasons for this are...

1. She's bored of you

2. She's not having second thoughts as she feels she's getting into something serious that she can't get out of, she's not sure

3. She knows she can have you any time, you lack challenge

My advice, stop texting so much, next time she wants to see you (if her interest level hasn't completely gone by now), say that you've already made plans for that time.

Good luck
 

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I'd just like to add there's absolutely nothing to indicate anything romantic going on here.
 

Sensible

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Facebook, Cellphone etc. should be used for only setting dates.
There can be countless reasons to why she lost interest. Back off and see what she does. If she reaches out to you, make a definite date and don't talk to her on text. The only way to know is by simply asking her out.
 

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Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don-Kong

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SgtSplacker said:
Women make decisions emotionally, she'll just wake up one day and be over you. It's as easy as that.

Women must remain unfulfilled when it comes to seducing them so they always want more.

- If she texts you alot, keep it short so she is never satisfied.

- If she calls you alot, only answer sometimes...

- If she likes to talk alot, don't engage her conversation and change the subject often or just tell her you have to go.

- If she likes to screw, avoid her sometimes.

90% of female decisions are emotional, she must be kept thirsty!
Good stuff. :up:
 
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