Solomon
Master Don Juan
lol @ this thread
a mod please close this baffonery
thanks!!!
a mod please close this baffonery
thanks!!!
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ah, I see. So you're just here to brag?Babnik said:It doesn't. I want to understand the reasons behind such choices. This is just one example but I know of plenty more. I can get even those girls attracted to me (but not all will cheat) but why would a chick not want a DJ as a BF and use a DJ as a boy-toy for sex? I am very successful in everything I do (including a career with an 85K job at age 22 and model face and body looks). Is it because girls know I will dump them if I don't think they are good enough? It is true... I won't be in LTR with worthless girls but shouldn't they at least try?
Because they make the women feel good. Would you date an obese ugly woman who was a millionaire? Most normal men wouldn't.Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I totally hear ya. I see HOT women with ugly, dorky, slobby guys, who on top of it, don't have good game(I mean, from what I can see, it appears they have poor game). I see it every weekend in Manhattan. I've posted so many times about this subject.Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Me too. It doesn't even make sense.edger said:Not that I take a woman's words at face value, but my aunt(who's attractive by the way) once told me that hot women go for avg./below avg. looking guys, so they don't have to worry about the guy cheating on or leaving them. She claims they are more loyal. Sounds like a hunk of sh*t to me
Not that I agree with it necessarily, but the analogy would be more like saying I won't buy a Ferrari because someone else will be more likely to steal it from me and maybe hurt me in the process.DonJuan11 said:Me too. It doesn't even make sense.
That's like saying I won't buy a Ferrari because then I'll never have to worry about the price gas being too high.
True, but if i have to guess why women go for guys we'd consider losers i'd have to say that these losers are probably those who don't give 2 ****s and a gravy about the whole "scene" and what's going on while trying to keep upI'm in the Mood said:OP is either trippin' or has personal issues.
Man stop worrying about other guys and worry about yourself!!
Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes, but understand that she isn't the only woman out there and I am f*cking far more chicks than that guy ever will in his life. I never said all chicks are like that.TyTe`EyEz said:Let me get this straight. The guy who is fvcking the girl that you want to holler at has zero game, but you - the guy on sosuave whining about it - have it all. Is that about right?
Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.