Solomon
Master Don Juan
lol @ this thread
a mod please close this baffonery
thanks!!!
a mod please close this baffonery
thanks!!!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ah, I see. So you're just here to brag?Babnik said:It doesn't. I want to understand the reasons behind such choices. This is just one example but I know of plenty more. I can get even those girls attracted to me (but not all will cheat) but why would a chick not want a DJ as a BF and use a DJ as a boy-toy for sex? I am very successful in everything I do (including a career with an 85K job at age 22 and model face and body looks). Is it because girls know I will dump them if I don't think they are good enough? It is true... I won't be in LTR with worthless girls but shouldn't they at least try?
Because they make the women feel good. Would you date an obese ugly woman who was a millionaire? Most normal men wouldn't.Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I totally hear ya. I see HOT women with ugly, dorky, slobby guys, who on top of it, don't have good game(I mean, from what I can see, it appears they have poor game). I see it every weekend in Manhattan. I've posted so many times about this subject.Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Me too. It doesn't even make sense.edger said:Not that I take a woman's words at face value, but my aunt(who's attractive by the way) once told me that hot women go for avg./below avg. looking guys, so they don't have to worry about the guy cheating on or leaving them. She claims they are more loyal. Sounds like a hunk of sh*t to me
Not that I agree with it necessarily, but the analogy would be more like saying I won't buy a Ferrari because someone else will be more likely to steal it from me and maybe hurt me in the process.DonJuan11 said:Me too. It doesn't even make sense.
That's like saying I won't buy a Ferrari because then I'll never have to worry about the price gas being too high.
True, but if i have to guess why women go for guys we'd consider losers i'd have to say that these losers are probably those who don't give 2 ****s and a gravy about the whole "scene" and what's going on while trying to keep upI'm in the Mood said:OP is either trippin' or has personal issues.
Man stop worrying about other guys and worry about yourself!!
Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
Not a trolling question. Here in SC it happens all the time.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes, but understand that she isn't the only woman out there and I am f*cking far more chicks than that guy ever will in his life. I never said all chicks are like that.TyTe`EyEz said:Let me get this straight. The guy who is fvcking the girl that you want to holler at has zero game, but you - the guy on sosuave whining about it - have it all. Is that about right?
Babnik said:Why do women prefer fat, ugly, style-less men with double chins who are making $30K per year, wear dirty shirts with holes, and most importantly can't put 2 words together. Most of the time these guys just smile and say "Guh..uh...I dunno...haha....uh....hahahaha!...uh..." Why does this turn women on?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.